I am open to any tips or suggestions. I think she wishes that it would fail. It's very important to have people in your life who either understand your condition or are willing to try. But I also say no, too, so I do set boundaries. What chance do I have to even get a guy to like me, if they judge me immediately based if Im a 10/10 or not? Figuratively. Everything we are thinking is based on how everyone else treats us. But the thing about it for me is, I have no idea what I do wrong. In life I cant tell anyone I started to tell some about my problem then she made a joke. Why Cant I Be Loved? I go through life feeling like everyone hates me and I am just a big loser. Ive narrowed it down to maybe Im not real enough with people. Why am I not pretty? The critical inner voice strongly influences feelings of isolation, loneliness and social anxiety, a subject you can learn more about here. Rejection can be a difficult pill to swallow. What caught my attention most about your comment is when you talk about losing your personality because I have been there. Im always left out. then they are complaining about me to someone else not to my face am I really that bad. Lol. Just be alone! Whatever the answer to that is whatever my unlovableness is is where the solution to this whole problem can be found. I also think Ive lost my creativity and drive because its been so frowned upon. no matter what i do.. there is this emptiness in me..cant seem to feel the void! What was that thing in me at the very beginning of my life that led me to be ruined like this? What are the rules? I believe in you. I think I have a deep dark ugliness side that people see and dont want me around. Unfortunately, finding either can seem like an insurmountable challenge for many people. This could include reading, listening to music, spending time in nature, or whatever else brings you joy. Feeling unloved and rejected is very real in my life and I have the proof, how can you ever change that with just words. Youre better than the problems, but no one wants you to be better. Humanity would function perfectly well without it, there would be no dramatic changes in anybodys life, and nobody would know the difference. I didnt have her love or hugs. When you're depressed, unsupportive friends and family can prove trying. You have to believe in yourself and your kids! If someone loves you, theyll make time for you. I am chucking that inner voice out the door.go away satan cause me i am awsome! I welcome challenges. The women who are just like me in personality type want a white guy with a big beard and tattoos. I should remember these next time my inner critic tries a # on me. You are NOT alone, even if it feels like you are. Growing up some of my black friends told me I wasnt black enough, do they excluded me. I actually dont have anyone to talk to that I can just talk to & vent without someone reporting me to someone & telling me Im sick,, or twisted & throwing it up later on & eventually regret that I told because trust & betrayal ruins it, I feel judged. We neither acknowledge nor disregard its presence or function. Resist Depression Myths Realize Others Struggle Too Find Support Do you ever feel like you have no support from family and friends? I am sensitive with criticism, if someone said something bad,I thought to myself that I was just being sensitive but actually their words hurting me. I will invite someone to go to coffee and take their contact details and then am ghosted. Sorry I dont have time to say more, but I think awesome sums it up nicely. Its difficult for me to advice something without knowing what is happening in your life right now. Im doing these steps tonight and seems like I am feeling so much better, thanks you so much psyhalive, hopefully everyone who also felt this stuff we can get rid of this thing step by step, as a child who came from a divorces, I always believe the healing process takes time, As a child I was severely bullied throughout all of my school years, even by some teachers who seemed to take pleasure in humiliating me and was often mentally and emotionally abused by my mother who hated men, and a father that had very little to do with his son. Remember that you are unique and special in your own way. I agree whole heartedly. Why does no one care about me? My mom always adored my brother more than me. And before anyone tells me Im being judgemental(or whatever) you need to know I am speaking from experience. And these days are the times when I break down.. go back to feeling like its me. When psychologist Lisa Firestone conducted research using a scale that measured individuals self-destructive thoughts, she found the most common critical thought people had toward themselves was that they are not like other people. I was wrong for keeping my kids away from certain things that I needed to let my kids make their own teen mistakes that I couldnt protect them forever. I just try and be the best me despite my depression voice telling me Im nothing and spend most of my energy on me, trying to live through each day. If someone is experiencing feelings of depression, anxiety, loneliness or social isolation, it can be extremely beneficial to seek therapy. It could signify that your partner is no longer invested in the relationship and doesnt want to work on things anymore. It dont know why but there are just times when I, for no particular reason at all, feel like no one likes me or wants to be around me. Conversely, not a soul dreads getting back from their morning jog, having to feel the looming presence of their bedroom walls and ceiling. When i try show him affection he always pulls away. My mother bought her a shirt that says she said something like that if you think Im a B**** you should meet or see my daughter. There were functions happening & third parties would make me aware of them after the fact, as why I wasnt there which made me look like I wasnt interested. And caring about someone isnt enough to make them care about you. We live in a very sick world with evil people and yes sometimes its our own family. All my sister in laws will go and hang out with each other but never make a point to invite me. No amount of counseling will fix this. Drifted from old friends . Whether it's rejection from a job, school, or relationship, nobody likes to feel like they aren't good enough. Maian, you have very articulately stated exactly how I feel, myself. The only thing I ever wanted was to be left alone. Wow, I can relate so much. To Lucie: I am with you. I really think the world will be like that for some people, and its okay. I have no real friends because I seem to only attract selfsentered people that the world only revolves around them. Like what Snowy said, it really does feel like theres just something inherently wrong with me, a fundamental aspect of me that makes me unlovable. Could this be the case? It is so much fun being me and no one understand me better then myself. A Way Out of Loneliness: How to Feel Less Isolated and AloneLength: 90 MinutesPrice: FreeOn-Demand WebinarsWatch Now: Learn about the psychological roots of loneliness Overcome the critical inner voice that perpetuates feelings of isolation Challenge the psychological defenses that limitLearn More When people dont get out of the way and you are always the one who has to move!! As it is, I dont stand a chance. They all go to concerts and bars together but for some reason they never think to ask if I would like to join. I have spent a lifetime trying to work this out and Ive come to the conclusion that whatever it is thats wrong, it is not what we are doing or saying but something that is beyond our control. People dont mind if I am around, they seem to actually enjoy my presence so Im not like a hated villain or anything. People say nobody can love you until you love yourself, and thats also true. I may do it today as reading all the comments has been powerfully insightful and helpful and tear-jerking and heart-warming! I see happy families and couples and think of me alone and its depressing. There are ways to deal with rejection and still maintain your self-esteem. If I say something about the phones, Im criticized for being self-centered. I think its my personality and that makes people not want to befriend me. Dont get me wrong I have a wife and children grandchildren but few friends who I rarely see. Which basically proves they werent. Elizabeth, I know exactly how you feel! Hear, No one likes me in the school that i go to what should i do. Make an effort to go out more often, whether its meeting new people at parties or signing up for dating websites. Here, I am trying to get involved with them, have a pure heart for them, no judgemental opinions or anything mean, just standing ready to accept them as they are, acting like their lawyer who would protect them everywhere just for a hope I will get the same treatment, not exactly same but somehow other one will also act same for me or at least think for me too. Yet, it seems anything I say or do is taken as offensive or weird, and no one can stand to be around me. Thanks again. I mean like a very close friends. Im just not sure why. Once youve identified them, its essential to challenge the behaviors dictated by your inner critic in order to go after what you want in life. Celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. People sense that and they may become afraid, consciously or not, that if they give you reassurance you will cling to them and demand more and more, which is very daunting if they are already having to work hard to maintain their own confidence. Why Does Nobody Love Me, Not Even My Family? I love my company. Of males, a very large part of the nerdier/more quiet ones suffer from this at least part of their life! They want you to be upset. No one ever reaches out to me. Its never going to happen, nobody likes me. The part that baffles me the most is that others talk about how someone is a total jerk or a**hole, yet theyll still be friends with, and spend time with that person. Right, forget about the critical inner voice, what about all the critical outer voices?? This is an amazing perspective . It hurts my feelings when I find out about my family going on vacations or friends getting together but I was never included. Eventually I became agoraphobic; hiding from a world I saw as cruel and calloused which led to even more shame because I wasnt strong enough to overcome these things on my own. I also had a lot of teachers insult me too and one that made fun of me. Its not someone physically going out to me and telling me what I am doing wrong when I do it, and what to do instead. The quickest analogy I could come up with is that of drywall. The only way to protect myself and my property is to stay as invisible as possible because in the lawless garbage society that America has become, one cannot trust anyone (individuals or authorities) to respect difference. But no one I feel any connection to. Its pathetic, sometimes. Its not like I dont know Im annoying to be around, Ive just never been able to isolate and eliminate the annoying part. Life shows you the reality. I guess Im not good at social cues, or Im just so used to being hated that I frequebtky mistake it for love, because I genuinely dont see how much peopke dislike me until the entire relationship blows up & finally tell me they never wanted me around. 6. I now live even further away & know no one, so see no one, as I have always been the one to maintain the relationships Ive had. Im reading all of this and realizing that life just doesnt work out for all of us huh. Please read about it,find a support group and get out. I see people physically abused and mentally abused when their minds can find a solution to even the cure to cancer. U have to read up on this, watch YouTube videos, educate yourself because this is almost certainly what you are experiencing. My so-called girlfriend must be really insecure if she must team up with her control freak siblings in badmouthing me behind my back. My dad is depressed and is of no help to me. No one wants to hear me when I did try to tell. I think plenty of us here probably get enough of that treatment already It is what it is right now. When I do reach out to others it often feels like I am inviting myself or pushing myself upon people, which also leaves me feeling insecure that its only an act of pity, sense of obligation or guilt that compells them to spend time with me. Annie: I was you. I meanwhile make a marginally bigger effort for other people and when its not reciprocated I feel taken advantage of and angry. Guys talk to me, but I always feel like Im too ugly for anyone to love so I just avoid them. Like who would pick to be a loner , but its all I can come up with. I feel less alone. I laugh at my own jokes, I appreciate my advices, I have good time listening to my stories, I sometimes impress myself with witty ideas. Perhaps you can start one on your own (this what Ive done, started some meetups, though many dont pan out, but if your interests are general, Im sure there is already a meetup out there, at least in bigger towns and most cities in N. America. What we think and feel really matters , I often end up hearing problems and I really care and give attention but when I need some human interaction its just not available. Nobody, at any point whatsoever throughout the course of their day, has the slightest thought of drywall. We encourage you to get support, whether through a group, a counselor or therapist. Even when I walk down the sidewalk in my city, people never move aside to let me by Im pretty sure because Im invisible to them. Its easy to believe that no one cares about you when youre feeling down, but thats simply not true. I too was incessantly picked on by my peers in school. Well look at how to find love, develop self-compassion, and create a healthier relationship with yourself that will open up the doors of possibility in your life. No wonder why married men live much longer than many of us single men. Many people out there love and appreciate you, even if theyre not your romantic partner. It makes me incredibly said that the only emotional outlet available to me, is one that I need to pay for:-(. I hide in the library, pretending to study, but I just sleep there or cry. BULL$%^#. Ive been fired from jobs because nobody liked me. I am sickof it and I dont know how to deal. Book by Susan Jeffries brilliant book really helped me to re-focus when i was younger. I found out that I wasnt missing any special nugget of information and that I was actually socially competent, I just wasnt in the right group *all along*. Too much effort. One reason you might not find love is that youre not putting yourself out there enough. I also perceive that most of the time when I attempt to interact with a group of people that I am always the one no one cares to listen too. I smile at everyone and I go into situations feeling positive and confident- not overly- yet no one includes me in anything. Ive tried that a few times. If you struggle to cope with rejection, it may be helpful to seek professional help from a therapist or counselor. Over low self esteem. I have no friends it was my self destructive behavior that drove them all away and Im either too proud or too scared to ask for forgiveness but I cant bring myself to make new friends and every day is just getting worse and worse. No one wants to me around a loser.like me. I have friends I talk to online but as always they are there for a while and then just loose interest. I am responsible for alot of them but not all, and I am careful of what I take serious when I hear vicious rumors. Someone who will listen to you without judgement. Idk why. If youre having trouble finding love and self-acceptance, plenty of resources are available to help you. Spread joy and kindness everywhere you go and nobody will be able to forget about you. Thats what you owe most. Im so glad Im not alone! My Parents are dead , my brothers are dead , my partner is dead . I recently discovered a solution to my no-one-likes-me problem. Because of this i feel soo lonely, unwanted and useless. Please know that you DO make a difference in this world, I just recently moved away from home and started college. I am 60 years old, married, moved to warmer climate in a 55+ community hoping to meet people like me. We just have to do us and say F the world. This is ridiculous, how can u say its not based in reality and then say most people experience it? ? Its almost impossible to want to fix this because of that feeling. If youre feeling unloved and unable to accept yourself as you are, this guide is here to help you out. I have done a lot in my life, I am proud of , developed my carrier became successful , yet I am terrible at attracting people . These are the people who matter and whose opinion of you should matter most. Im kind believe in unconditional love, Im honest, trustworthy and used to be the first to offer help. Because of this, it can be very difficult to notice that this voice has seeped in and even harder to peel away its sadistic coaching from our true perceptions. My ex was one of the most understanding people, but she left me over my problems. I started working out and leading a healthy lifestyle, until eventually, my physical appearance improved. I take that back. I telephoned this person. The thing is I had to shout loud in my house as my Dad and my brothers were overbearing and I was quiet and shy, I went red if anyone spoke to me and got bullied at school. I refuses to let the devil get in that much and it will always start with people. That feeling of no one likes me comes from being bullied throughout school and having no friends as a consequence, and also from being severely sick and by myself, the first time having called an ambulance that refused to come (in my country ambulances are free and it is rare they dont come but they told me to pay a doctor instead) and the second time I asked my then boyfriend and he left me by myself severely sick. Even right now my critical voice says But you are not like them. You are not alone. The thing is, i still experience shit times at work- at home, massive family fallouts over what other members have done to my family. A loving person is a magnet for potential partners who are ready to explore "forever" with you. My family hates me you can look at my comments on this for the rest of the details but I dont know how too I feel lost do you?? I dont get it. Nothing to do with external circumstances but everything to do with internal feelings? ?25 people that would die if you were to die. Then she said that it wasnt until her girlfriend started getting to know me and had the exact same experience that she finally didnt feel crazy, because someone else confirmed that it wasnt just her making it up in her head. I am 50 years old, a successful healthcare professional and still feel like that worthless little girl. What if your HUSBAND thinks youre boring? Unemployed . Id love to have a beer with just us, just us lonely f*****s. I dont know you at all. Its hard being lonely and trying to make friends as an adult its like a job. I help people and They dont even listen to me because its just me so something must be wrong with me. Kids would play with me but only if no one else was around. I like it when people smile because I showed just a little caring. It may sound like a cliche, but focusing your attention on another topic besides yourself does help. I am also one of u guys from my childhood till now no one is there for me not even my family I tried many times to do suicide but I couldnt.Its my humble request to all love ur self pray to god be positive stay positive. Just because someone doesnt want to be your friend or romantic partner doesnt mean they dont like you as a person. I was adopted in the 1960s before abortion was legal so I know I was never planned or wanted. My first school was for the disabled, was miles away from where I lived so I boarded there and I didnt feel I belonged there because my disabilities were less than others around me; The second school was a conventional one, where I was continually wondering, Do I own up to other people or will I just get mocked and worse? I had seen the impact that verbal abuse had had on other kids at my previous school Are people saying things about me behind my back? If I ask, will that mean I have to own up to what they dont actually know about (the one I am ashamed of) and then have to live with the consequences of telling them? No one wanted to know why I did some things. So many areas of this article and comments rang true for me. But my good qualities out weigh any bad ones.. This feeling has almost no bearing in reality. You cant make someone love you all you can do is control your own reaction to the situation. They may appear to have 1000s of friends, but may go home and just feel as empty as this article talks about. I have had the same experiences in life. We also tend to be influenced by how our parents felt toward themselves, if they felt awkward socially or had low self-esteem, we take on some of their self-critical perceptions as our own. Ive even gone as far as to ask people to pray and have God send good people in my life. Happiness is (mostly) a choice. Yes Snowy, the sentence everyone else emanates some kind of invisible glue that makes other humans stick to them, and we are somehow born without that is something which makes me feel so helpless, so miserable and just take the live out of me as if I have been slapped right on my face. i am in the same bote, i feel alone, no one likes me and i stay clear from social events just cause i have already decided that they will not like me anyway. Im 43 years old and the saga continues. this has happened all my life. Sure Ill fb friend my coworker. Hans. I have a lot of friends but i think nobody likes for what i am they always think im an idiot and invite me to anything,because they think im not of thir level what should i do? You may feel like youre not good enough or that you dont deserve love. You are not alone. I feel miserable and lonely, and though Ive tried to reach out again, Ive failed. Which is ridiculous as she knows nothing about it. Well I feel better now knowing that all you good and sensitive people are senceing what I am. Sometimes its not a just a critical voice in our heads. You dont have to be everyones cup of tea. This is exactly what happen to me! Im financially very stable. No one else has any compassion for me so why should I have compassion for myself right? I have only one friend left, but shes very far and busy with her own problems, so we rarely talk anymore. So, I decided to change, physically at least. So there was something there from the start that made me detestable and unlovable and spurred others to teach me to hate myself. Yes thats true I have also many problems? I rather suspect I never shall. I have never had therapy and I personally dont do drugs of any kind. dont mean I have to be friends with them or ever let them hurt me again .. but forgiven helps me to go to something better! But we grow into ourselves and from that we organically learn to happily not give a f*#@, Its ok dont feel bad Ive been told by my own family that nobody wants to be around me, Same. Slowly the haze started to clear as I learned to not feel responsible for the captious comments of others. I was never popular but had some friends. Communication is crucial in any relationship, but it's especially important if you're prone to getting hurt.Make sure you're communicating your needs and expectations to your partner. Whatever it was probably doesnt even exist anymore, its been replaced by the self-hate. love it live it, find comfort in it, Sometimes I feel I was meant to be born on another planet in another galaxy, where I fit in perfectly and other people get me and like me. My relationships always ended in failure, and only one girl stayed with me for a couple of years. I have done numerous things and made some casual friends. Anybody had similar experiences, and what do you do about it? Some people are more likeable than others. Idk its weird. Please dont get offended to Jana, she probably didnt know if they knew or not just assumed & thinking of others like me without knowing me. Maybe because Im not very good at communication, I tried several groups before I found one I liked. i doesnt work that way . Im weird. Here are some tips on how to find love and self-acceptance: Its a common feeling to wonder why nobody likes you. I cried. No one likes me.They think I m weird n even my own friend makes fun of me.I feel alone in my class. I cant tell you not to let it affect you, because it will, and it has! Also, if they were so lonely, why didnt they respond to texts, calls, emails, or mail? I love to laugh with others (not at others). Its a one way ticket, I always act caring and interested but no one interested in me at all. Its as though a mass narcissism and even sociopathic traits are becoming the norm in our society and for lonely discarded people theres no where turn to for help or understanding. Thanks. I cry sometimes because I feel very very lonely insight. Really I just want to talk a bout a book that Ive read, or art, or thing we do in class, science projects, things like that. If you feel unloved and lonely, know that you are not alone. My loneliness is working against my chances finding friends. They actually hardly talk to me at all. Most of the time Im invisible or people just ignore me. Spend time with friends and family members who make you feel good about yourself. Start to notice when your thought process shifts and your inner critic starts to invade your mind. Now, at this stage of my life Im having a hard time fitting in with my husbands (of 10 years) family bc they make me super uncomfortable. I am not alone i never thought other feel this way too. Is it because I dont deserve or there is something wrong with me. Sadly Ive been feeling nobody likes me. since I was a kid. What you wrote is almost exactly how I feel too! It is important to remember that just because someone doesnt love you does not mean you are not lovable. I felt like I was losing my mind in the last week and had to get help at a medical center and I stayed several days. Dont give up hope with a little effort; you can find the love and happiness that you deserve! I hate it here on earth I dont know what to do anymore anyone has any advice, please help. Your husband is abusive. Right now its like all human contact I have turns bad. emedicine.medscape.com/article/1171558-clinical#b1. I didnt realize there were other people like me! Guys please help me.. Now a days I do lot of overthinking .. And all will be negative only. Nonsense. But obviously I wasnt born hating myself, this developed slowly over a long time with a lot of external reinforcement. nnnnnnnnooooooooooooooooo i dont need ANYYYYYY of thissssssssssss. am so lonely! I actually dont have anyone to talk to that I can just talk to & vent without someone reporting me to someone & telling me Im sick,, or twisted & throwing it up later on & eventually regret that I told because trust & betrayal ruins it, I feel judged. The problem is, you have been listening to your inner critic for so long that you bought the my-family-doesnt-love-me story. Radzi seems to know how I feel and doesnt dispute it. they only want positive things of a man, wont put up with any hardship that can happen in relationship. Over. you can talk yourself into the highest selfawareness,oe the lowest life you can imagen. It hurts because nobody wants to feel alone. , Stay strong Cora! It is important to remember that everyone experiences rejection at some point in their lives. God Bless you for saying that. Maybe we have weird pheromones or something? I seem to have bad luck with it and just keep getting hurt. I have no children . Me is unlovable. Everyone I meet dislikes me eventually. Lol. I was alone for many years being treated terribly by so called friends and boyfriends who were users. I know I could be worth having around if someone would give me the chance. dont think people would know how badly i tear myself apart. But the one thing I know is that no one is bad. This feeling of not being loved has made me search for the love I didnt get in my mom from others, guys especially and Ive always ended up being hurt because theres this voice that kept telling me that no one loves me, no one will ever love me. You can get that help. I dont want to blame myself so I end up crying, trying to find on why I am so sad about that. Why does the bad thinks over shadow the good? 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